18th February 2023
Publisher: Daniels G.O
UNDERSTANDING THE SCHOOL OF MARRIAGE …By Pastor Lanre Adewoye MFM Solution Zonal Assembly, Lagos
Genesis 2 Verse 24M
1st Corinthians 13 Verse 11
1st Corinthians 11 Verse 3
PRAISE & WORSHIP SESSION
Genesis 2:24 : Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Marriage Is An Institution Of Learning just like we go to School to learn
An Institution where a man leaves his father and his Mother to become one flesh with a woman for a different family,a different background entirely.
To make this kind of union work,Couples must avoid certain mistakes.
* You must not Compare Your Spouse With your Parents or Someone else
* For You To Become One with your spouse,You must understand yourselves.You must understand who your Partner is,Where he or she is coming from.
Never Expect your Partner to think the same way like you,Let her be herself
* In The School Of Marriage, Forgiveness is a must because offences must come,so you have to learn to overlook mistakes.
Couples can quarrel and have misunderstanding, and even say nasty things to each other,this does not mean that they don’t love each other,but where it goes wrong is when they begin to bear grudges
1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
Many Couples are still childish in marriage.
*To avoid Conflict in Marriage, accept when you are wrong and make amends,it doesn’t take away anything away from you. Apologizing to your spouse does not make you a fool.
* Avoid Arguments with your Partner, nobody wins a medal for better argument with his or her Spouse.
* In marriage, when there is no money, some People especially women can mistake it that their husbands does not love them. Marriage is not about Money, although it can be a means to express love to p provide the necessary things for their Home .
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
From the above scripture,we understand that the head of a woman is her husband,so in marriage,if you do not give the headship Position to your Husband, You are going to fail.
One Major Thing a man needs from a woman is respect and not Sex because he can go elsewhere to have sex.
An example of how men value respect from a woman is demonstrated in the story of Queen Vashti in the book of Esther who was replaced by another Woman Queen Esther for snubbing the King when she was called Upon.
Esther 1:15 “What shall we do unto the queen Vashti according to law, because she hath not performed the commandment of the king Ahasuerus by the chamberlains?
1:17 For this deed of the queen shall come abroad unto all women, so that they shall despise their husbands in their eyes, when it shall be reported, The king Ahasuerus commanded Vashti the queen to be brought in before him, but she came not.
1:18 Likewise shall the ladies of Persia and Media say this day unto all the king’s princes, which have heard of the deed of the queen. Thus shall there arise too much contempt and wrath.
1:19 If it please the king, let there go a royal commandment from him, and let it be written among the laws of the Persians and the Medes, that it be not altered, That Vashti come no more before king Ahasuerus; and let the king give her royal estate unto another that is better than she”
A Man is the head to watch over his family, Provide for them and Bless them with his mouth Always .
As The Head of the home,a man must be able to perceive things of the Spirit
Do You Respect Your Husband? Men do you give Honor to your wives?
*Another Thing Women must do to avoid Conflict in the Home is To Pay Attention to their Husband’s feeding.
Every Man Loves Food.Don’t Starve Your Husband,When you allow your Husband to go hungry and look for food elsewhere,you will share from whatever consequences that comes out of it.
* Love must be Missing in your home and Communication. Pay Attention to whatever your Partner has to say, Especially women who love details.Do not let love Deminish from Your Marriage. Do not let Your Children take the place of your Spouse because they will leave you some day to be on their own
* There will be time For Financial Crisis, Health Challenges and Others,At this point you must remember your marital vows.
Alot of people do not understand the seriousness or weight of the marital vows they made on their wedding day.
Are you keeping to your marital vows? Can you as a man or Woman say that no other Person has seen your nakedness since you got married?
If you are found wanting in this regard,there is room for repentance. Remember that God is watching us. Whatever you are doing , if can hide it from your Spouse, You can not hide it from God who watches the affairs of men.
*Marriage is sweet, Appreciate your Partner, especially men tell your wife how much you love them
Some people use to say if you tell a woman you love her she will begin to misbehave . When you say it , you are enforcing it and it will help your marriage.
I pray for you,any marriage that the devil has taken over ,by the word of the living God, Heaven will restore the joy of that marriage today.
Every Marriage going through hard times,may heaven Arise and deliver such marriage in Jesus Name.
Lord I bring Every Marriage before you Today, Forgive them in any area that they are lacking
(1) Any Strange Spirit in me working against my Spouse,Come Out And Die in the Name of Jesus.
(2) Any Negative Spirit using my body to torment my Spouse, come out and die
(3) Powers Claiming Ownership Over my marriage,loose your hold and die
4) Any One Born Of A Woman that says my marriage will not stand,die in the name of Jesus.
(5) Any One I refused to marry that is now attacking the glory of my marriage loose your hold and die
(6) Any Curse issued against the joy of my marriage on my wedding day, expire and die in the name of Jesus.
(7) Powers Assigned to pray me and my husband into unpardonable mistakes and error Summersault and die in the Name of Jesus
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